THE PROVERBS 31 WOMAN: A VALUES-DRIVEN WOMAN

Proverbs 31 woman: A values-driven woman.

The Proverbs 31 Woman

Lately, there seems to be more and more conversation about women leading. Women who lead in their homes, community, or workplace. As the dialogue deepened, I reread my post on A Values-Driven Woman and felt the need to repost for women seeking to live a purposeful, values-driven life.

The Proverbs 31 woman serves as a model for all of us worldwide, though depending on your personal experience, your perception of her may be one of inspiration or unease. A Proverbs 31 woman is respected and resourceful with a strong work ethic. She brings honor to her husband, places her family first, and cares for the poor and needy. She is wise and doesn’t live in fear. She is driven by her values. She is a woman with a heart for God.

The Proverbs 31 Woman is Not Flawless

It’s important we understand the Proverbs 31 woman is not an example of a perfect wife and mother. The Proverbs 31 woman lives life to the fullest and fulfills her God-given purpose. As she sets about her day, she strives to be an example for her family and her community. Verses 10-31 in Proverbs describe her qualities and provide an example for us to follow.

As we read through the qualities of the Proverbs 31 woman, we must remind ourselves that we are each called to serve a purpose for which we were created. It’s finding our purpose and holding true to who we are that challenges us. It is my prayer that you will find the virtues of the Proverbs 31 woman inspiring and encouraging. She is a wife of noble character, fearless because she knows who she is and what matters most. She lives with intention.

10 Qualities of the Proverbs 31 Woman

1. She is principled.

“A wife of noble character who can find?” Proverbs 31:10

2. She has a strong work ethic.

“She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands.” Proverbs 31:13

3. She is a good steward of her resources.

“She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night.” Proverbs 31:18

4. She is capable and able.

“In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers.” Proverbs 31:19

5. She is a servant leader.

“She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.” Proverbs 31:20

6. She places her family first.

“When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.”

Proverbs 31:21

7. She is strong in mind, body, and soul.

“She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” Proverbs 31:25

8. She speaks with knowledge and understanding.

“She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.” Proverbs 31:26

9. She is self-disciplined.

“She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.” Proverbs 31:27

10. She is God-fearing.

“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” Proverbs 31:30

To Laugh at the Days to Come!

How many of these qualities do you exhibit? My desire is to be a woman who can laugh at the days to come because I have full confidence in God. As I read through these qualities, I pray God will reveal anything that hinders me from becoming a Proverbs 31 woman. When we trust God and surrender our will to His purpose for us, we will begin the journey of becoming the woman we were created to be, and it’s different for each of us. The Proverbs 31 woman was not written for comparison; it’s written to challenge us.

Let’s not judge ourselves or others. Let’s bring honor to God and our families by becoming a values-driven woman. Won’t you join me? Perhaps you’re well on your way to becoming the values-driven woman in your home, career, and community — I applaud you! I would love to hear your story. If not, let’s commit to supporting one another in our walk. Blessings!